20 Useful Tips For Dating An Older Man
Dating an older man is really not that big a deal anymore. I mean, come on, Hugh Hefner is 88 years old and he had 3 permanent girlfriends all in their 20’s for several years. Plus his current wife is actually 27 years old – yes a 27 year old woman married an 88 year old man – it happens! Since we’re living in a more accepting world, we’ve actually come to realize that in many cases age is really just a number; so if you are or plan to date someone older than, you here are 20 useful tips to consider.
There is a reason this man was attracted to you, so don’t try to be someone you’re not – he wants you. Oftentimes in ‘younger women-older men relationships’ the women think that they need to act more mature and they try to take on a different persona… don’t!
Take Things Slow
Just because your not dating a younger guy doesn’t mean the relationship has to move warp speed. Take your time and get to know the person before you rush into things such as moving in together, marriage or even kids.
Accept His Baggage
Most older men have baggage and you can either learn to work around it, or let in hinder your relationship. Whether it’s an ex-wife or a few kids, in order to sustain peace and harmony you must learn to accept these things. And the same goes for him.
Don’t Be Childish
Yes you’re younger than he is and you may not be as mature as your other half, but remember you’re in a mature relationship now so always keep that in mind. Just don’t be childish.