10 Japanese Customs That Are Bizarre To The Western World
Japan has a completely unique culture and strict code of etiquette that baffles most people who grew up in the Western world. The Japanese just like to do things differently — from eating noodles, accepting gifts, to even pouring your own bottle. Their complex web of social traditions, beliefs and rules can cause a culture shock to those traveling to Japan, especially if they came there unprepared. Here are 10 Japanese customs that you should know before hopping on that plane to Japan.
Slurp On Your Noodles
Slurping on your noodles is considered polite in Japan — you are giving compliments to the chef. Slurping shows that you are enjoying your food, so make sure you do it loudly.
Pleasure in Isolation
In Japan alone, there has been a unique phenomenon involving young men locking themselves away and being completely isolated from the real world. This phenomenon is known as ‘Hikikomori’. These men lock themselves away in small rooms with almost zero contact to the outside world, relying on their parents on food and other provisions.
It is so widespread in Japan that there are even facilities and counselors that cater to these sufferers. An estimated 700,000 to 1 million Japanese are said to suffer from Hikikomori.
Avoid the Number 4!
Just like Number 13 is unlucky in the Western world, the number four has to be avoided at all costs. In Japan ‘four’ is avoided because the word sounds very similar to ‘death’.
So in elevators, you will miss the fourth floor. On some buildings you will not even see floors 40 to 49. 49 is thought to be extremely unlucky, as it sounds similar to the phrase ‘pain until death’.
Pouring Your Own Drink is Rude
In the western culture, it is customary to serve others before serving yourself. In Japan, they take it a bit further because you are never supposed to pour yourself a drink. If you offered to pour for others, someone else will hopefully offer and pour the drink for you. You must wait for someone in the group to say ‘Kanpai’ or ‘cheers’ before drinking.
Sleeping on the Job is Admirable
In most parts of the world, getting caught sleeping on the job will get you in trouble. But in Japan, it is completely acceptable and even admirable.
Known as inemuri, the Japanese believe that sleeping at work means that you’ve been working so hard you aren’t able to get enough sleep at home. This means that the exhausted employee must be totally dedicated to the job.
They Hire People to ‘Push’ You In The Subway
The Japanese hire ‘oshiya’, or pushers to literally push everyone in the subway cars especially during rush hour. The oshiya wear designated uniforms, hats and white gloves.
There Are No Janitors in School
In the western world, we are used to having janitors doing the cleaning in school. That’s not the case in Japan — dedicated time in school is set aside for the children to work on cleaning the rooms, scrubbing the floors and the bathrooms.
To outsiders, this all looks like child labor. But the Japanese believe that this act teaches children the sense of responsibility and working together — to be selfless rather than selfish.
Blowing Your Nose in Public is a No-No!
If you are seen blowing your nose in public in Japan, it is seen as rude, disgusting and disrespectful. The Japanese expect you to sniffle until you can find somewhere more private to blow your nose — do it as discreetly as possible.
Tipping Can Be Seen as Rude
USA mostly relies on tips to get the job done, but in Japan, tipping is considered insulting and even degrading. Leaving money behind causes confusion, and many will chase after you to give back the money. Instead of leaving a tip, it is recommended to leave a small present instead.
There Are Special Slippers For Every Place
It’s customary to change to slippers when entering Japanese homes, temples, and sometimes museums, galleries and traditional restaurants. Sometimes you will even find special slippers for the bathroom. Basically every time you find a row of slippers, put some on.